When I first began homeschooling, I imagined peaceful mornings, a tidy table, and children who eagerly opened their books. What I got instead was a 2-year-old pulling pencils off the table, a newborn who needed to nurse exactly when we started math, and a teenager asking if she really needed to write an essay that day.
And yet… somehow, beautifully, homeschooling worked.
It still works — even now that I’m teaching a 17-year-old finishing high school requirements, an outspoken 13-year-old, a hands-on very energetic 5-year-old, and entertaining a toddler while wearing a newborn in a sling.
If you’re new to homeschooling, I want you to know:
✨ It doesn’t have to be perfect to be powerful.
✨ You already have everything you need to start.
✨ A gentle, home-centered education grows naturally over time.
Here’s the simple beginner’s roadmap I wish I had on day one.
1. Know Your “Why” (It Will Carry You Through Hard Days)
Every homeschool journey begins with a reason — freedom, flexibility, academics, faith, family closeness, or simply wanting childhood to move a little slower.
Your “why” becomes your anchor.
Write it down. Put it on the fridge. Remember it when the toddler is crying and the baby needs to eat every 30 minutes.
2. Check Your State Requirements (It’s Easier Than You Think)
Most states require something simple:
A letter of intent
A basic attendance record
Sometimes a portfolio or assessment
Nothing overwhelming.
3. Choose a Gentle Starting Curriculum
For beginners, I recommend keeping it simple and open-and-go.
My favorites (especially with multiple ages) include:
Masterbooks – gentle, faith-friendly, Charlotte Mason flavor
The Good and the Beautiful – free PDFs and beautiful lessons
Math manipulatives over strict textbooks for younger ages
Don’t buy everything at once. Start with:
👉 Math
👉 Reading/phonics
👉 A simple language arts program
Everything else can be added slowly.
4. Create a Daily Rhythm, Not a Strict Schedule
When you’re homeschooling a high schooler, a middle schooler, a kindergartener, and managing a toddler— a rigid schedule will break you.
But a rhythm?
A rhythm will save your sanity.
Mine looks like this:
Morning: Breakfast, morning basket, read-aloud
Mid-morning: Math + language arts (teen works independently)
Afternoon: Nature walk, unit study, chores, creative play
Evening: Teen study hour, family dinner, quiet time
Flexible. Repeatable. Peaceful.
5. Start Small — Add Slowly
Too many new homeschoolers buy every workbook, planner, and curriculum bundle at once.
Start with the basics…
Add subjects as you grow confident…
And allow your children to lead with curiosity.
6. Build a Home Atmosphere Where Learning Happens Naturally
The most powerful education my kids have received hasn’t come from worksheets — it’s come from:
cooking together
reading aloud on the couch
caring for younger siblings
long nature walks
asking questions at the dinner table
Homeschooling is more than school at home — it’s a lifestyle.
7. Remember: You Don’t Have to Be Perfect
You will have messy days.
You will have behind days.
You will have cereal-for-dinner days.
But you will also have
✨ progress,
✨ connection,
✨ and moments of wonder you never would have seen otherwise.
You can do this.
And this little corner of the internet will walk with you every step of the way.


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